And physical restraint plus ‘chemical restraint,’ i.e., sedation or intoxication, is a much more dangerous combination, so it’s probably safer to avoid anything like alcohol. “Another potential risk from tight restraints would be muscle breakdown potentially causing kidney damage and electrolyte issues (‘rhabdomyolysis’),” said the docs, “so platitudes like ‘stay hydrated,’ i.e., drink plenty of water before and after, is reasonable advice. So, don’t strap your husband face-down on your bondage board, don’t put anything around his neck or otherwise restrict his air intake, and if you haven’t already agreed on a safeword and/or safegrunt and/or safegesture, settle on one and/or all now. There’s also a known link between unexpected deaths and compromising the airway and breathing.” That doesn’t mean tying people up on their backs is always safe but tying someone down on their belly is worse. “We know this from both patient safety research and examples from law enforcement. “For a mix of reasons, restraining people prone-on their belly-can be particularly dangerous,” said the docs. Is there a chance I might? Can you ask a doc for me? We’ve been doing this for 10 years and I haven’t killed him yet.
For the same reason, he doesn’t want to ask his doctor. He didn't want me to write, because he doesn’t want to find out it’s dangerous and have to stop. If it matters, he’s in his 40s, in great shape, normal blood pressure, etc. But for the last hour they’re fairly tight, and for the last 20 or 30 minutes they’re almost unbearably tight. Some go over him and around the board, pressing him down to the board, others go around his body and cinch in. I’m worried that he’s going to have an embolism or something because of the straps. (We also have a leather straitjacket, but we use it a lot less often.) If he doesn’t complain or ask to get out, he’s rewarded with a hand-job when I’m done. Toward the end of the night, the straps are so tight he can’t move or even take a deep breath. I play video games for a few hours with my feet up on him. Most often I put him in his sleepsack-picture a leather sleeping bag you can’t get out of-which is strapped to a bondage board on the floor by our couch.
But I worry about accidentally killing him. We’ve been able to make it work because he’s into a kind of bondage he calls “storage.” On “storage nights,” I put him in bondage and play video games while he “suffers.” So far, so good. I’m a fairly vanilla guy, while my husband is into bondage. I’m nervous about sending this question and my husband is afraid you might answer it.